My daughter has been cleaning out her room to make more space, and asked for my help to sell some of her American Girl things. I've sold doll clothing, furniture, and accessories (she's keeping her dolls). My daughter played for hours with her dolls, even taking them across country on some of our trips.
While it was sad to see some of the items go (the cute little bed!), I'm excited that another set of kids will use and enjoy her doll things.
Often when we are clearing out sentimental items, the emotions and memories associated with the items hold us back from truly letting go.
Here's how I try to deal with things that hold a special sentimental attachment:
- Can it go to a family member? Many sentimental items are inherited, and we hold on to things we never use, that are not our style, or don't fit in our home. For example, I had a small writing desk from my grandparents for many years, sitting in a hallway. It was nice to look at once in a while, but wasn't really used. However, my sister jumped at the chance to take it and turned it into a makeup table. It looks great in her home and is getting the love it deserves.
- Can it go to someone who can really use the item? If yes, then I try to focus on the benefits the item will have for it's new owner.
- Can I get a tax deduction? If the item has a lot of life left in it and can be donated, sometimes the idea that it can be a tax deduction can help move it out of the house.
- Take a photo. Don't forget that you can always take a photo of your sentimental item before you pass it on.
What are you strategies for dealing with sentimental items you want to let go?